Do You Need a Wedding?

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Could spending big on your wedding set your marriage back years? In this episode of The Real Estate Podcast, hosts Adrian Trott, Ariel Kormendy, and Jennifer Goncalves take a blunt, honest look at the true cost of weddings and why starting a marriage in debt can create long-term financial and relationship strain. From gift myths and cultural expectations to alternative ways to use wedding money—like buying a home or paying off debt—this conversation challenges the idea that a lavish wedding equals a strong marriage. If you’re engaged, planning a wedding, or thinking about your financial future, this episode may completely change how you approach “the big day.”

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0:00 Intro
1:59 Why this wedding conversation matters right now
3:46 “Weddings are a waste” — breaking down the costs
5:45 Divorce stats, glamorization & financial stress
7:29 Simple weddings vs destination weddings
9:33 Waiting for the “perfect time” to get married
11:59 Who’s paying for the wedding—and why it matters
17:38 How much guests really spend per wedding
20:17 Why big weddings pressure friends and family
23:45 Destination wedding guilt & guest expectations
26:17 You shouldn’t start off your marriage in debt
27:34 Would parents rather fund a wedding—or a future?
30:26 What to do with the money instead
32:41 Paying off debt, and financial & transparency honesty
34:44 Outro/recap

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In 2011, Ariel Kormendy and Adrian Trott formed The Kormendy Trott Team, now often referred to as KT (thanks to our logo!). The foundation of KT is built on providing unmatched value and attention to detail in everything we do. From our ever-expanding, comprehensive list of exclusive services to our expertly trained team, you will receive the highest level of care throughout your entire real estate journey.

Originally a team of two in Milton, Ontario, the KT Team has grown into a large team of exceptional REALTORS®, a client-care department, and now includes KT Media, KT Commercial, and our sister company, Renti, allowing us to provide our clients with a complete lineup of genuine, professional, and proven services across Halton Region, Peel Region and the surrounding Regions within the Greater Toronto Area.

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HOSTS

Chris Behie

After buying and selling several homes with The KT Team, Chris knew he had to be part of it. A top performer at Toyota Canada for years, he shifted gears to real estate and hasn’t looked back. Known for his sharp communication, negotiation skills, and down-to-earth approach, Chris helps clients navigate the buying and selling process with confidence—especially families juggling busy home lives like his own. When he’s not closing deals, you’ll find him in Milton chasing adventures (and his two boys).

Steve Bruman

Steve Bruman is a Milton real estate agent known for his standout service, quirky humour, and endless patience—especially with first-time buyers and seniors. ASA-certified and a proud empty-nester, Steve brings energy, experience, and a personal touch to every real estate journey.

Robin Dasilva

Robin Dasilva is a trusted REALTOR® serving Milton and the surrounding area. Known for clear communication and steady guidance, she helps clients navigate every stage of the buying and selling process with confidence. Through her writing, Robin also shares practical insights and real-world experience to help homeowners make informed real estate decisions.
Adrian Trott

Adrian Trott

Adrian Trott, co-founder of The Kormendy Trott Team, began his real estate career in Milton and has since built a reputation for delivering exceptional results. Passionate about constant growth, Adrian is always finding innovative ways to improve services and create a better experience for clients. When he’s not navigating real estate transactions, you’ll find him snowboarding, exploring new destinations, or enjoying a good video game.

Email: [email protected]

Phone: (416) 707-8401

Ariel Kormendy

Ariel Kormendy

As co-founder of The Kormendy Trott Team, Ariel Kormendy blends real estate expertise with a creative flair for marketing, helping clients achieve their goals with confidence and ease. Outside of work, Ariel is a dedicated family man who loves exploring new cuisines, perfecting recipes in the kitchen, and enjoying good food with great company. His passion for connection shines through in everything he does, both personally and professionally.

Email: [email protected]

Phone: (647) 464-0957

GUESTS

Jennifer Goncalves

Jennifer Goncalves

Our incredible Client Care Manager, Jennifer has been with KT since 2018 and is a huge part of getting everything done! When she's not making the office laugh, or helping out with preparing listings and coordinating everything, you can find her snuggled up with her mini pony (dog), beau and husband!

Email: [email protected]

Phone: (905) 514-1335

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